Should You Consult Your Significant Other Before Going Natural?

Me and the Mr. on a mini vacay in Vegas

About a month ago on Instagram and Facebook, I posed this question:

For the ladies in relationships, did you consult with your significant other before deciding to go natural? Why or why not? And for the single ladies, would you talk it over with your partner, or is it a "my hair, my choice" deal? Lastly fellas, would you want your lady to talk things over with you, or nah?

The responses I recieved were diverse and sometimes complete and polar opposites. Here are a few excerpts:

"I don't see a good reason to talk/have his permission for something that grows out of my hair naturally..."

"I didn't ask for his permission, but I did let him in on my decision. I explained to him what it meant to me..."

"My boyfriend had his reservations about me becoming natural. He didn't understand why I wanted to cut my hair. So for a few months, I educated him on it and showed him how versatile it was. When I did the big chop, he loved it. Moreover, he admired my courage to make such a drastic change..."

"Nope. Didn't even consider asking him."

Sentiments on the subject matter range from indifference, to hotly contested notions of not seeking validation from a man. When it comes to this topic, there is no right or wrong answer. Everything hinges on experiences and perspectives.

So I'll share mine. Keep reading over at!


  1. These will be different things between you and your companions. None can see through what they are doing. If things going too bad, you can choose counselor for relationships to locate what is wrong and just how to over your circumstances.

  2. There are dating sites with fake profiles, so you need to be careful. And if you have a reliable dating site, then the chances of finding someone are very high. I have used different dating sites and if you are interested in free dating I can recommend the gay dating apps free because I already signed up there a while ago and this is one of the best at the moment.

  3. What a great discussion. Similarly, speaking of love in general, I would like to say that I was alone for a while because I didn't know how to get to know someone. However, when my friend suggested reading this that helped me find a partner. I hope you will do the same.

  4. This comment has been removed by the author.

  5. This comment has been removed by the author.

  6. This comment has been removed by the author.

  7. Hello, I think so, since this will be the act of a person who is in a healthy relationship. Namely, these can be found on anonymous dating. I met my future wife there. And we always consult with each other before making important decisions and, in my opinion, a relationship in which both partners feel comfortable is much better.

  8. Thank you for sharing your online dating experience with me! For me, it is very important that the guy had the same interests as me, so I get to know a lot on dating sites! If you are interested then try this site and you can find a happy relationship here! I'm sure you can find happy relationships here!

    1. I've discovered a fantastic platform for connecting and getting to know wonderful live women. Check out, one of the most popular online dating services available. It's an ideal place to engage with a diverse community of individuals, making it easier to find like-minded partners and build meaningful connections. Don't miss the opportunity to explore this vibrant space for meeting incredible people and potential romantic interests. Join today and start your journey to exciting new connections.

  9. I really liked this article!

  10. Thanks for the useful information! I really liked it because now I am looking for a relationship and I like it It inspires me because I can find many examples of happy families and be sure that I will find a happy relationship! What do you think?

  11. Boomf prioritizes making our consumers feel heard and understood. We may be recognized for our one-of-a-kind cards, but our true purpose is to put your ideas , sentiments, and emotions into a work of art. None of the messages you send us are judged, belittled, or ridiculed. We take them all seriously and treat them all with the same regard.